Prague: The city of a thousand spires, faces, and languages. Coming back home from Prague was a bittersweet moment. I would return to the place where I grew up but I would have to leave a place where my heart had built a home. The song “Love Song for a City” came to my mind as I took my last tram ride home in Prague. I remember trying to change the lyrics to fit Prague and all the great memories I had there.
Its kind of hard to put into words what happened to me while I was abroad, but others can see it. Maybe it was that I grew a beard and my hair got shaggy. Or perhaps it was my new affinity for sweaters (which I’ve hated for years.). Those are changes that did happen, alas those are just the surface.
Before Prague I was a baby bird just looking over the edge of the nest. I could see the world and hear it and sense it, but I was not a part of it. I was trapped in a cage of comfort and security. I was so fearful of change and risk I was content with living a half-life of zero conflict, zero chaos. Convinced utterly that by not doing anything at all I could remain safe and happy at the same time I stayed still and stagnant. In a sense I was dry-rotting.
Prague however was the cataclysm needed to give me wings. Being thrown into a totally foreign environment with just the basics gave me the opportunity to grow because I had no safe haven. I couldn’t just go home, I couldn’t just curl up and wish away my challenges. I had to face what came at me. I had to rise up to the challenge or be crushed by the onrushing water and suffer the rapids until they calmed enough for me to drag my battered body out.
I was asked in a survey near the end of my study abroad program, “What is your favorite memory from your time abroad?” I couldn’t answer it at first because every memory was my favorite memory. For me I figured my best memories were yet to come. I had grown so much that I had so much to look forward to returning home. Again, even I can’t find the exact words of how I changed, but I can feel it in my body, my mind, my soul. Perhaps it’s an understanding that life is a balance of peace and chaos, not one or the other. Perhaps it’s my new found drive for school, or my newly chosen major. Perhaps it’s even my new found enjoyment of slivovice. I cannot place any one point on how or what changed, but I know I did, and I know I changed for the better.